The Foundation For A Successful Marriage, Family & Home

Reconnaissance  Missions Take Time

These are the Spirit-led Words of the wisest man who ever lived BEFORE he got “turnt out” by 999 women too many…When it comes to the foundation for a successful marriage, family and home being built, Solomon said:

“Through wisdom a house is built, And by understanding it is established; By knowledge the rooms are filled With all precious and pleasant riches.” Proverbs 24:3-4


1. Knowledge (Information)

2. Understanding (Comprehension)

3. Wisdom (Application )

Answers can’t hide from questions, and every relationship that ended as a mismatch must have started as a mismatch.  Some questions to ask for a good foundation:

1. What did I miss or overlook in the beginning that led to me forcing a mismatch Lord?
2. Despite what was done to me and how I felt, what was my part in it Lord?
3. How should I move forward?
4. How should I be improving myself?
5. How will I recognize the right one this time Lord?
6. How can I recognize the wrong ones immediately?
7. What changes and preparation should I be making to be with the right one; Your Choice for me?

Lesson Learned And Still Learning: “I love you” is not enough, and SEX is not the glue…no matter how ‘good’ it is  ;-)

When it comes to the foundation of a good marriage, family and home…mismatched relationships are formed and forced in the BEGINNING, and relationships are destroyed for a lack of knowledge, understanding and wisdom.

“I didn’t know he/she was like that!” Hello?

Seek. Explore. Discover.
Reconnaissance Missions Take Time! ♥♥♥


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Life In A Glass

YES…God is a healing God and He works healing miracles every single day, but why should He if we’re not willing to do our part?? Healing is a FAITH issue…what do you believe about your health?

Our bodies are not lacking synthetically re-created and patented chemicals that cause side effects! God placed every nutrient our bodies need in the earth for our bodies to heal themselves BEFORE He created Mankind from the dust of that same earth…

Herbs, minerals, essential fatty acids, amino acids, proteins, etc.; NUTRITION is not optional, but vital…thus the word “vitamin.”

If our bodies are to live and live well, doesn’t it make sense that we need to nourish ourselves with LIVE food? Every miracle comes with a set of instructions, and when we do our part God does His!

Life is meant to be enjoyed…Love Yourself WELL! Even the toothless ones can benefit from a green leafy veggie smoothie ♥♥♥

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Beat Winter Dehydration

Winter Hydration Helps Release FAT

If your urine is dark yellow…medical experts say you’re probably dehydrated! There are many symptoms related to dehydration…look ‘em up.

One thing’s for sure, they say if we don’t flush toxins out of our body, it’ll protect itself by surrounding certain un-flushed toxins with FAT cells, and that fat ain’t goin’ NOWHERE no matter how much dieting and exercise we do until those toxins get flushed out!

We’re not sweating as much (if at all) during the winter, but we still need at least half our body weight in ounces of water daily…No other liquid substitutes count towards this end.

My first-thing-in-the-morning routine includes The Twin Towers: One 16 oz glass of water immediately after waking up. I still enjoy my coffee in the morning but, I’m strict about drinking a second glass of water within the next hour before I eat or drink anything else.

I weigh 190 so I need 95 oz minimum / day…which is 6 or more of these glasses per day.

Running to the bathroom a lot beats the potential of STONES or BLADDER INFECTIONS later…so love yourself well; Develop a good water drinking habit!

I like my water at room temp, so because it’s filtered through the fridge, I refill my glass immediately after drinking one and set it out somewhere I know I’ll see it for later. And when I get the munchies I’ll drink one down before eating to curb that sweet tooth. (I need all the help I can get!)

The word “vitamin” stems from the word VITAL and H2O is the most vital vitamin of all…Whatever hydration plan works for you Baby, work that thang!!

Beat Winter Dehydration
Beat Winter Dehydration

Love Gives; Love Needs A Receiver

“For God so loved the world, that He gave His only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in Him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” John 3:16

The best Christmas gift anybody can receive is the salvation of one’s soul and the ability to reconnect with the God of our creation.

“Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends.” John 15:13

The full payment of one’s lifetime worth of sins and the ability to be shaped in the image and likeness of God Our Father through the shed blood of His Son Jesus Christ is the greatest gift of all…and only needs to be believed and received.

God knows when we receive His love, we’ll fall out of love with sin because we can’t serve two masters! That’s how GRACE works! God knows what He’s doing…do we?

No matter what you’ve done or didn’t do…God’s Love Is Unconditional and Unfailing. He already paid for every sin you’d ever commit in this lifetime through the shedding of Jesus’ blood, and all He needs for you to do is RECEIVE His Love.

“We love him, because he first loved us.” I John 4:19

There’s no question as to whether God Loves you or not…He said so in His Word, He invested His very own breath into your core essence, and because He is God who cannot lie, and One who will not force you to accept Him…the real question is:

“Are you a RECEIVER of God’s Love?” ♥♥♥

Grace Supplies

Grace is the unmerited favor of God who supplies the supernatural empowerment of God to the faithful who rely on Him and receive from Him:

“And he said unto me, My grace is sufficient for thee: for my strength is made perfect in weakness. Most gladly therefore will I rather glory in my infirmities, that the power of Christ may rest upon me.” II Corinthians 2:19

The biblical definition of the word ‘infirmity’ is “want of strength.” I believe Paul walked in such exceptional power due to his understanding of what grace is and the human inability to succeed without it.  ♥♥♥

Faith Receives

The military commander asked Jesus to simply SPEAK a healing word without needing Him to show up. He knew The Source of True Power and how Power flows…

What we believe God for and speak on must come to pass! After Jesus said He’d never seen such faith in all of Israel, to this man He said:

“…as you have believed, so be it done unto you.” Matthew 8:13

God is no respecter of persons…what He’s done for others, He’ll do for you…Faith PLEASES Him! Love Gives. Grace Supplies. Faith Receives.  ♥♥♥

“I AM” = “WE ARE”

We are not the sum total of our mistakes, sin, rebellion, or failures the way guilt, shame and condemnation from the enemy leads us to believe! That’s not who we are. We are not the sum total of how bad others have treated us or how powerless others have made us feel either. How do we see ourselves?

Just like Adam became a living soul, according to God’s Owner’s Manual (The Bible) we literally are the Breath of God in a human body of flesh…extensions of God Himself stamped with our own unique individuality, personality and purpose in this planet.

When He said He created us in His own image and likeness, and that The Blood of His Dear Son Jesus cleansed us from all unrighteousness 2,000 years ago at The Cross…He meant what He said whether we believe it, walk in that and use that knowledge to our advantage or not.

What will we do with what God has created and re-created us to be? When we know our true selves, we can be true to ourselves and others. ♥♥♥

Learning To Love Our True Selves

What is it about loving ourselves that is SO challenging? Why does self-destruction override self-love at times?

Do you have 6-7 Minutes? Let’s take a look at this soul issue and how we see ourselves…

“Everything God Is, We Became!” –Bro. D.J. Dill

The following is a 6 Minute Sermon clip from Episode 4 of The Soul’s Side Talk Show w/David J. Dill

Click Here —-> Learning To Love Our True Selves